Wow, it’s been a while since I have been on my blog site! I don’t have any excuses, I just have been going through a lot the past couple of months. I tell you, we get so caught up in the hustle and bustle that we forget to take care of what really matters. If you are feeling burnt out, exhausted, tired or just plain blah, please make sure you take care of your well being and health. If we don’t have our health, what do we have?
In case nobody has told you, you matter. If you think otherwise, then do whatever you can to change your perspective. I have recently cut ties with a toxic family relationship. If there’s one life lesson I have learned recently, it has been that I cannot live with family members. My relationship with this person is much MUCH better when we’re not living under the same roof. I was very grateful to have the opportunity to achieve goals with the help of this person, but with time and situations, we are not meant to be under the same roof. I don’t know about you, but, I love to have my own house rules. Living under someone else’s rules just doesn’t fly with me. Especially with growing up as an only child, I’m so used to doing things my way, independently. I’m pretty sure most of us don’t like to do what we’re told, we rebel. Quite honestly, that’s OK. If you don’t want to do something, don’t do it! Remember, we were not brought here to please other people. With that being said, rebelling is maybe not quite the good thing to do, especially in a negative way. Every negative thing you say or do, will be brought back to you in another circumstance, or situation. Who the heck wants negative situations in their life?! Not me.
Anyway, I’m not really sure what the purpose of this blog post is, but I feel like I just need to release my thoughts onto a keyboard. If you resonate with it, great! If not, and you’ve gotten this far, I appreciate you taking the precious time out of your life to read my content.
Whatever situation you are given, you have to consistently search and find the good aspects of it. Seek out the negativity in your situations and things will not get better! Or at least take longer to get better. There’s always a rainbow after a rainy day. Let that rainbow be your guiding light. If people cause us pain, we pray and give them white light, love and peace. No matter how cruel people are to us, we reflect the negativity in our “mirrored egg” protection shell and reflect back harmonious positivity.
You’ve got this. You always have.
Spread the love, fam. xx